The Love Story in my Mind
If you are
trying to live the love story in your mind, you most likely are already
frustrated, devastated and experiencing a love-hate contradiction; loving the
person and hating how it isn’t working out as you have staged it in your mind. Love
does not work out as a pre-rehearsed play on stage. Love takes it course. It meanders
and breaks through obstacles. As a matter of principle, you do need to have a
plan on matters love, but you feed your plan as you live the story. It is only
in soaps and theatre plays where we have a prewritten love story.
The Love
Story in my Heart
The heart
is emotional and emotional attachment when not backed up by a sober mind (plan)
is like driving along a potholed road, it wears one down fast, it is bound to
come to a breakdown. The heart is amazingly elastic. The heart has the
bandwidth to accommodate its choice, be it a prince or a pauper. The heart can easily
ignore the road signs with unmatched speeds of love; teach your heart to honour
boundaries and you will be safe.
The Love Story in Reality
You got to
have a plan, an idea in your mind. What is it that I am loving for (looking for)
so that you don’t fall for anything? Marry the love story in your mind with the
love story in your heart. Reality does not knock doors. It is what is.
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